One of the first things that people say to answer this question is that successful Black women’s standards are too high. First off, I consider myself a successful Black woman. No, I’m not rolling over in dough, but I am faithfully working towards goals and dreams. Am I asking for too much because I want a man who has a CAR, JOB, NOT MARRIED *AMEN 2 this!*, and not have a truck load of kids with six billion different baby mamas? I can handle 1 or 2. BTW, what are we considering as SUCCESSFUL Black women? Are we talking about Black women in corporate America or are we talking about Black women who are going for theirs? What do you consider as a successful Black woman?